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I’ve got a big announcement to make about our online Membership I hope you are doing well in lockdown. I’ve got a big announcement to make about my new online membership programme. This lockdown has been such a blessing in disguise.  I know it shocked me when it first started but to be honest, the …

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Thinking of separating? Don’t rush

Thinking of Separating or Divorce? Mum’s the Word!   Expert lawyer, Kalev Crossland has these tips for anyone who is thinking of ending their relationship and separating or divorcing. This article is directed to spouses/partners who are seriously considering ending a relationship but are uncertain what lies ahead in terms of relationship property division.  Particularly …

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How to positively & effectively co-parent during difficult times

I wanted to share these 2 informative articles with you at this difficult time, sourced from the UK as they have been dealing with the virus scenario longer than us Kiwis. Firstly an article about the legal situation in New Zealand as it relates to children in shared parenting situations during lockdown. And secondly some …

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Help me! I’m in self isolation with someone I don’t like…..

You find yourself stuck at home contemplating some serious alone time with someone you have been thinking about leaving… …so what do you do to survive especially if your children are at home too? Make sure you create a space somewhere where you can retire to if things get bad – “Your Happy Place”. Be …

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The law about dividing your things with your ex

Relationships end, for many reasons and when they do, the parties to the relationship are left with the difficult task of resolving the division of their property. In New Zealand we have legislation black letter law, that deals with the division of relationship property, that legislation is called the Property (Relationships) Act 1976. The act …

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How to choose a lawyer who won’t fuel your divorce/separation

Why do people need a lawyer when they go through divorce/separation? If your scenario has any complicated issues such as custody, abuse or there is a question mark over your relationship property pool a lawyer can be a valuable resource. Engaging an appropriate lawyer can also reduce your stress levels as it will allow you …

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How to communicate with your toxic ex in high-conflict situations

You know the scene – two people who are unable to hold a civil conversation because every exchange is emotionally charged.  Nothing beneficial or positive comes from a situation like this and so in order to move forward one person has to take control of the communication.  This article will teach you a method of …

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Understanding the impact separation and divorce has on your teens

Leaving a relationship when you have children can be one of the most difficult decisions to make. Although we realise we might be in unhealthy relationships, we often stay longer than we should particularly when children are involved. We might think we’re doing the best by them if we stay but in fact, we expose …

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10 Questions To Ask Before Deciding to Separate or Divorce

Below are questions you should ask yourself before you make a firm choice to separate or get divorced.  Ask yourself these ten questions first. These questions have the biggest impact when you tell the truth to yourself. When you ask yourself each question, focus on your internal state: If you don’t alter this, then wherever …

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