Still Torn Between Staying and Leaving?
If you feel like you're silently drowning in indecision, you're not alone...
Constant second-guessing and overthinking
Secretly hoping things will magically get better
Terrified of making the wrong move… or waiting too long
Feeling responsible for everyone’s emotions — except your own
Watch This First
Join The 'Fence Sitter™ Stay or Go? Course' and you won't have to decide alone...
Created by Equal Exes founder and global divorce and relationship coach, Bridgette Jackson.
This is the structured path to finally get clear... without shame, pressure, or emotional chaos.
A step-by-step decision course for people who can’t keep living in limbo.
Still Torn Between Staying and Leaving?
This is the structured path to finally get clear — without shame, pressure, or emotional chaos.
A step-by-step decision course for people who can’t keep living in limbo.
Created by Equal Exes founder and global divorce and relationship coach,, Bridgette Jackson.
Still Stuck in the Exhausting In-Between?
If you feel like you're silently drowning in indecision, you're not alone...
Constant second-guessing and overthinking
Secretly hoping things will magically get better
Terrified of making the wrong move… or waiting too long
Feeling responsible for everyone’s emotions — except your own
Clarity isn’t a lightning bolt. It’s a step-by-step process — and this course walks you through it.
From emotional limbo to grounded clarity, with tools at every step, you'll get:
Guided Coaching Videos
15+ Tools & Downloads
4-Step Clarity Framework
Stories & Examples
Weekly Reflection Journal
From emotional limbo to grounded clarity, with tools at every step.
Guided Coaching Videos
15+ Tools & Downloads
4-Step Clarity Framework
Stories & Examples
Weekly Reflection Journal
HERE'S WHAT INCLUDED IN THE MODULES:
Module 1: Where You’re At vs Where You Want To Be
We begin by clarifying your reality and defining your relationship needs.
Module 2: State Of The Union
Take an honest look at your relationship using self-reflection and diagnostic tools.
Module 3: Making The Decision
We help you make an informed decision about whether to stay or go.
Module 4: Communicating The Decision
Practical tools, scripts and advice for talking to partners, kids, family, and co-workers.
Module 5: Moving Forward
With stay or leave pathways, we help you build momentum towards balance.
Module 6 (Bonus): Closing This Chapter
A range of resources to help you gain closure and get excited for the next chapter.
COURSE MODULES
Module 1: Where You’re At vs Where You Want To Be
We begin by clarifying your reality and defining your relationship needs.
Module 2: State Of The Union
Take an honest look at your relationship using self-reflection and diagnostic tools.
Module 3: Making The Decision
We help you make an informed decision about whether to stay or go.
Module 4: Communicating The Decision
Practical tools, scripts and advice for talking to partners, kids, family, and co-workers.
Module 5: Moving Forward
With stay or leave pathways, we help you build momentum towards balance.
Module 6 (Bonus): Closing This Chapter
A range of resources to help you gain closure and get excited for the next chapter.
WHO IT’S FOR
You’re torn between staying and leaving
You’re not ready to go, but you can’t stay like this
You want clarity, not pressure
You fear making the wrong move
The Fencesitter™ course doesn’t push you to stay or go.
It supports you to choose.
WHO IT’S FOR
You’re torn between staying and leaving
You’re not ready to go, but you can’t stay like this
You want clarity, not pressure
You fear making the wrong move
This course doesn’t push you to stay or go. It supports you to choose.
HOW IT WORKS
Join the Course
Instant, private access to everything.
Watch & Reflect
Short videos and powerful exercises.
Decide Your Next Step
Take calm, confident action.
HOW IT WORKS
Join the Course
Instant, private access to everything.
Watch & Reflect
Short videos and powerful exercises.
Decide Your Next Step
Take calm, confident action.
OUTCOMES:
You will quiet the Fence Sitter Spiral™
You will know your values and boundaries
You will understand how to communicate clearly
You won't be told what to do
You won't be pushed toward any outcome
You won't stay stuck in confusion
OUTCOMES: YOU WILL / YOU WILL NOT
You will quiet the Fence Sitter Spiral™
You will know your values and boundaries
You will understand how to communicate clearly
You won't be told what to do
You won't be pushed toward any outcome
You won't stay stuck in confusion
SUCCESS STORIES
"Divorce is such a roller-coaster. Bridgette helped me from start to finish. She really took the burden from off my shoulders."
~ Fran
"If it wasn't for Bridgette, we would all still be living a miserable existence under the same roof. Now we are all happy, confident, and settled."
~ Linda
"To get considered, intelligent guidance and support in an area that is so foreign to me is pure gold.
~ John
"I was in a toxic and abusive relationship for quite some time. Finally, I was put in touch with Bridgette. You could say she was my last resort... She's given me hope."
~ Luke
"In the first 6 months of my separation, it was so beneficial for me to be able to pick up the phone and speak to Bridgette at any time... I feel so empowered now, as I don't have to ask permission from anyone."
~ Emma
TESTIMONIALS
"Divorce is such a roller-coaster. Bridgette helped me from start to finish. She really took the burden from off my shoulders."
- Fran, Woman aged 30-60
"If it wasn't for Bridgette, we would all still be living a miserable existence under the same roof. Now we are all happy, confident, and settled."
- Linda, Woman aged 20-40
"To get considered, intelligent guidance and support in an area that is so foreign to me is pure gold.
- John, Man aged 40-60
"I was in a toxic and abusive relationship for quite some time. Finally, I was put in touch with Bridgette. You could say she was my last resort... She's given me hope."
- Luke, Man aged 30-50
"In the first 6 months of my separation, it was so beneficial for me to be able to pick up the phone and speak to Bridgette at any time... I feel so empowered now, as I don't have to ask permission from anyone."
- Emma, Woman aged 50-70
Need a softer start? Watch the free Masterclass and get the Fence Sitter™ Companion Pack first — then come back when you’re ready.
Join The Fence Sitter™
Stay or Go? Course
Private, self‑paced access to the full program and all tools.
PAYMENT PLAN
NZD$255 x 2 (USD$150)
Pay In Full
NZD$495 (USD$290)
No-pressure, no-guilt guarantee. This is about your clarity — not anyone else’s agenda.
if you have a coupon code, add it at checkout on the next page
Join The Fence Sitter™
Stay or Go?
Private, self‑paced access to the full program and all tools.
PAYMENT PLAN
NZD$255 x 2 (USD$150)
Pay In Full
NZD$495 (USD$290)
No-pressure, no-guilt guarantee. This is about your clarity — not anyone else’s agenda.
if you have a coupon code, add it at checkout on the next page
STILL NOT SURE?
Frequently Asked Questions
We offer expert support and guidance to help you make the best decisions for your future.
Question 1: I am so overwhelmed. Where do I start?
Join us for a free 15min Pathway Call, or book in for a 60 minute Discovery Session.
If you're feeling lost, confused, or unsure of your next steps, divorce coaching can make a significant difference.
Question 2: What exactly is a divorce coach?
We assist anyone whose life is touched by separation. Whether you're
- considering separation
- know you want to amicably split
- in the middle of a contentious divorce
- supporting a loved one
- trying to rebuild your life afterward
Question 3: How is divorce coaching different from legal advice?
Lawyers provide legal advice and representation. We do not provide legal advice, but can help you understand legal concepts, prepare for meetings with your lawyer, and ensure you're asking the right questions. Think of us as your personal project manager for your divorce.
Question 4: How is divorce coaching different from therapy?
Therapy focuses on mental health and healing from past trauma. We focus on the present and future. We'll help you develop coping mechanisms, set actionable goals, and navigate the divorce process with insight and strength.
Question 5: What if my divorce is amicable? Do I still need a coach?
Yes. we help ensure you're thinking clearly, advocating for your needs, and creating a settlement that truly works in the long-term.
Question 6: What is "guided resolution"?
To keep the need for lawyers as low as possible, we also offer guided resolutions to help reach agreement in relationships, property, and custody agreements – getting you to a result you are both comfortable with.
Question 7: We are not separating or divorcing - can you help?
Yes! We help people create stronger relationships through coaching.
Question 8: Can you help me help a loved one?
Yes, we frequently provide guidance to friends, family members and work colleagues on how they can best support the person(s) they know going through a relationship transition.
Question 9: What is the best time to engage a divorce coach?
Whenever you feel you need support and guidance - that’s the right time. Some people reach out before telling their spouse they want a divorce, to prepare themselves emotionally and strategically. Others engage our services mid-way through the process when things get complicated. Others seek coaching after the divorce is finalized to help rebuild their lives.
Question 10: How long typically do people work with you?
The duration varies depending on your needs and goals. Some benefit from a few sessions to gain clarity on specific issues, while others prefer ongoing support throughout the divorce process and beyond. We will create a roadmap that works for you.
Question 11: How do I know if we're a good fit?
Join us for a free 15min Pathway Call. This is a no-pressure opportunity to ask questions and see if we connect and determine if our coaching is right for you.
STILL NOT SURE?
Frequently Asked Questions
We offer expert support and guidance to help you make the best decisions for your future.
Question 1: I am so overwhelmed. Where do I start?
Join us for a free 15min Pathway Call, or book in for a 60 minute Discovery Session.
If you're feeling lost, confused, or unsure of your next steps, divorce coaching can make a significant difference.
Question 2: What exactly is a divorce coach?
We assist anyone whose life is touched by separation. Whether you're
- considering separation
- know you want to amicably split
- in the middle of a contentious divorce
- supporting a loved one
- trying to rebuild your life afterward
Question 3: How is divorce coaching different from legal advice?
Lawyers provide legal advice and representation. We do not provide legal advice, but can help you understand legal concepts, prepare for meetings with your lawyer, and ensure you're asking the right questions. Think of us as your personal project manager for your divorce.
Question 4: How is divorce coaching different from therapy?
Therapy focuses on mental health and healing from past trauma. We focus on the present and future. We'll help you develop coping mechanisms, set actionable goals, and navigate the divorce process with insight and strength.
Question 5: What if my divorce is amicable? Do I still need a coach?
Yes. we help ensure you're thinking clearly, advocating for your needs, and creating a settlement that truly works in the long-term.
Question 6: What is "guided resolution"?
To keep the need for lawyers as low as possible, we also offer guided resolutions to help reach agreement in relationships, property, and custody agreements – getting you to a result you are both comfortable with.
Question 7: We are not separating or divorcing - can you help?
Yes! We help people create stronger relationships through coaching.
Question 8: Can you help me help a loved one?
Yes, we frequently provide guidance to friends, family members and work colleagues on how they can best support the person(s) they know going through a relationship transition.
Question 9: What is the best time to engage a divorce coach?
Whenever you feel you need support and guidance - that’s the right time. Some people reach out before telling their spouse they want a divorce, to prepare themselves emotionally and strategically. Others engage our services mid-way through the process when things get complicated. Others seek coaching after the divorce is finalized to help rebuild their lives.
Question 10: How long typically do people work with you?
The duration varies depending on your needs and goals. Some benefit from a few sessions to gain clarity on specific issues, while others prefer ongoing support throughout the divorce process and beyond. We will create a roadmap that works for you.
Question 11: How do I know if we're a good fit?
Join us for a free 15min Pathway Call. This is a no-pressure opportunity to ask questions and see if we connect and determine if our coaching is right for you.